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The Cost of Dating: Why Fewer Dates Means Fewer Babies

The Cost of Dating: Why Fewer Dates Means Fewer Babies

We Have More Ways to Date, and Fewer Ways to Meet  Ordinary life has stopped producing relationships, so now governments, companies and AI are getting involved.  When I moved to New York in 2008, it was the era of multi-dating. I’d never experienced anything like it...
Adulthood No Longer Synchronises. Perhaps Rest Still Should.

Adulthood No Longer Synchronises. Perhaps Rest Still Should.

Summer used to synchronise adulthood. Now it shows how differently we live. Adulthood used to be organised by two moments in time, regardless of what life stage you were in: Christmas, when we all got together, and summer, when we did the same. Christmas still looks...
The Broken Promise of Adulthood

The Broken Promise of Adulthood

Why the life people were promised no longer arrives in order. I started university in 1997, part of the last UK intake before tuition fees were introduced. I graduated in 2001. I had a job offer in New York, a future I’d only just started to imagine. Then September...