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Single Is a Fact. Still Single Is a Timetable.

The words we use to describe adult life still assume there's one path. I’m 47. I’ve never married and I don’t have children. People describe my life through what hasn't happened or hasn't happened yet. "Chloe’s still single". "She’s childless". I've used those words...

You Can See the Shape. You Can’t See the Colour

We can see somebody's life from the outside and still not know what it feels like to live it. A kaleidoscope is designed to be viewed by one person at a time. You hold it to your eye and see the unique pattern it has created: the shapes and colours falling together....

We Used to Look for People Our Age. Now We Look for People Like Us.

As our lives take different shapes, age tells us less about what we might have in common. When I was younger, almost all my friends were roughly my age. Now the people closest to me are nine and sixteen years younger than me. School puts you in a classroom with people...
“How Many Kids Do You Have?”

“How Many Kids Do You Have?”

For over twenty-five years I’ve interviewed people all over the world. From talking about candy in Chicago to shampoo in Shanghai my job has been about parking my preconceptions. My work requires me to design questions that create space for answers I haven’t...

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